Some epitaphs go like 'Don't try.' This one Hannah tells us about. I means to not try to grasp for what we want or what we want to do or what we want people to think, it means that you just wait and see what will come, rather than try anything. It was for Charled Buwoski
The other I know is 'I am fearless when it comes to being fearful'this one was Aisha Chaudhry, I do not know what it means but I want to, i do get the simple meaning, but I kind of do not want to believe in it.